How Treating Others Well Can Get You Laid
I had an unbelievable experience.
I took a new girl out to eat. I talked with her, using some of the techniques on this board. I touched her knees with my knees. I looked into her eyes. I tilted my head slightly when she spoke to me. I leaned forward toward her when speaking. But the real trick, I believe, was not the way I dealt with her, but the way I dealt with the restaurant employees.
I asked the waitress for her suggestions. I asked about the food and what the secret of its excellent taste was. I greeted the busboy and engaged him in some light conversation. On the way I out, I grabbed my date’s hand and walked right into the kitchen and praised the cook for the great meal.
Outside the restaurant, while waiting for a cab, she held both my hands and said, “You are a gracious person. You treat everyone, even strangers, so well.” I responded, “You should see how well I treat people I know.” She said, “I want to be one of those people.”
Although it was not my intent, she invited me home with her and a passionate evening… all because of how I treated others.
(thanks to Mr. Zip)