Online Dating And Seduction Secrets

#1. Mr. Needy

How many times are you going to ask: ‘Are you ok?’ on a date? when you’re constantly needing reassurance, you’re considered ‘low status’ and unconfident.

Tell me a woman who would want to date a guy like that?

Being needy is the opposite of having confidence and confidence is the #1 thing that atracts women, so if you’re doing the exact opposite of being attractive, what do you think you’re doing to women?

#2. Mr. Predictable

Go see the movie Eurotrip. The main characters girlfriend dumps him at his high school graduation because he was: TOO PREDICTABLE.

Here’s a very simple formula:

PREDICTABLE = BORING

Women love the ‘bad boy’ type, why?

Because he’s unpredictable, and that keeps a woman on her toes, she’s not sure what to do or how to act and because of this she is in HIS reality.

#3. Mr. Into Himself

This is the guy who thinks he’s gods gift. Possibly makes a lofty income and tends to show it off. He thinks he’s coming off cool, however he’s usually rude, not to his date per say, but to people in general.

Women will look at how to treat others to gather ‘intel’ on your REAL personality.

#4. Mr. El Cheapo

This is the guy who invites a woman out and expects the woman to pay. He’ll look at her with this look like: ‘Hey, wheres your share of the bill?’

Anytime you ask a woman out and suggest she pay 1/2 you’ve already been tagged as Mr. El Cheapo.

Remember first impressions are everything and if you start off this way, the woman will constantly be thinking of all the dates where you’d try to ‘pinch pennies’ or asking her to pay.

Trust me, she’s already told her friends about you and they’re already plotting your end.

#5. Mr. I Must Be Right!

If you’re this guy, you have to prove your point at every opportunity. You know who you are. You crave someone telling you that you’re right.

Why would any woman in her right mind want to be out with someone who turns a conversation into a competition?

The goal is to keep things light. If this is you, learn about different conversation topics and start asking questions to the women when you’re out. Get them talking.

I think you’re like this because you’re a bit uncomfortable and unsure about what to say, so focus on this micro step: Learn about different, interesting conversation topics.

What’s really beneficial, and specially stands out about the Insider Internet Dating program is…

Instead of taking about meeting women online, you know how most books, seminars and courses they just talk about how to do it.

They tell you what you SHOULD be doing, but with Insider Internet Dating I show you, in real-life, in real-time, step-by-step…

HOW to meet women online.

And I believe THAT’S one of the key factors that’s made such a big difference and has contributed to the success of the students you see on the website and read about in these newsletters.

Instead of saying this is what you SHOULD do, now go out and figure it out yourself…

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This is the difference between THEORY and application.

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There’s no wondering what to do, there’s no guesswork…

Follow step 1, then go to step 2, then go to step 3 and so on…

And THAT’S the big difference.

With all these other programs and ebooks, they’re MISSING the application. What people ultimately want is the HOW TO.

‘Dave, just tell me how to do it’

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To your dating success,

Dave M.

Whether it’s speed dating, Internet dating or bar dating, safety must be the number one priority for women of all ages. With the increasing popularity of online dating, it is imperative to keep safety at the forefront of meetings and dates with unknown suitors.

Internationally recognized marriage and family therapist and radio talk show host Dr. Robyn has announced dating safety tips for women.

“With the reach of the Internet and the growing availability of online dating sites, the world is literally at your fingertips,” said Dr. Robyn. “Who knows who you’re really meeting in an online chat room? Safety and protecting your personal information must always be in the forefront of your mind.”

Dr. Robyn encourages women to use the following safety tips for first meetings and conversations:

1) Spend time on the phone prior to meeting. But, do not give out your home or cell phone number.

This way you get to feel more comfortable with whom you’re talking to and create more of a “relationship.” You may also find out more about the person from speaking with him. But, don’t give out your phone number to set up the call. Armed with just a phone number, anyone can find out your home address and other personal information. This can lead to identity theft, stalking, or other unknown dangers. Use an anonymous phone service, like MyPrivateLine.com, which offers a disposable number that lets you talk to strangers without revealing your phone number. Once you feel comfortable, you can exchange personal information.

2) Meet in a public place.

When first meeting it’s best to do so in a public place surrounded by other individuals. This way you don’t have to worry about an uneasy or potentially dangerous situation.

3) Never get talked into anything you do not want to do or feel you’re obligated to do anything.

If you feel like you’re being coaxed or forced into an uncomfortable meeting or situation, it’s best to avoid it. Just say no. Always listen to your gut!

4) Do not get in his/her car.

Getting into a car with a perfect stranger is not advised. Keep to your plan and stay in a public place for a first meeting. Don’t let your emotions or the fantasy of it let you get caught up in a dangerous situation.

5) Watch for red flags such as catching your stranger in a lie.

“Little white lies” often reveal much larger ones. If he will not allow you to call him or won’t send any pictures, this may be a sign of a potential fraud! Ask him straight out if he is married and about his children and living situation. If he starts off a friendship with lies, odds are it will continue that way.

6) Ask for several recent pictures before you meet.

This way you know whom you’re actually meeting. You don’t want to find out the picture you saw online was from five years ago. Providing recent pictures also shows more honesty.

7) Let someone know where and when you are meeting and anything you do know about him.

This way if there is a problem, people know where you are, whom you’re with, and when you’re expected home. It will also be easier to create an exit strategy, if need be.

About Dr. Robyn

Dr. Robyn DeVal, Executive Producer and Host of The Dr. Robyn Show, a web-based broadcast at http://www.thedrrobynshow.com, dedicates her life to helping people explore what is right for them. She is an internationally recognized marriage and family therapist and relationship expert and has appeared on Dr. Phil, CBS’s 48 Hours and Fox News nationwide, among many other nationally syndicated shows.

According to recent data from the U.S. Census Bureau and other research:

We stay single longer

The estimated U.S. median ages at first marriage in 2004 for women and men are 25.8 and 27.4 respectively, an increase of 5 years for women and 4.2 years for men since 1970. There are more than three times as many never-married women and men ages 30 to 34 today as there were in 1970.

The number of older single people is growing

There are 14.9 million unmarried and single Americans aged 65 and older. People aged 50 and older represent the fastest-growing segment of the Match.com community. According to Nielsen//NetRatings, more than 1.6 million men and women aged 65-plus visited online personals sites in April 2000.

Being single doesn’t necessarily mean being alone

There are 12.4 million single parents living with their children. Between 1970 and 2003 the number of single mothers increased from 3 million to 10 million; the number of single fathers increased from less than half a million to 2 million.

This is a simple list of things you need to do before going on an important date.

It includes things about yourself - such as brushing your teeth, taking a shower, maybe getting your hair trimmed, cutting your fingernails, etc.

It also includes things about your home - such as cleaning your bathroom, washing the dishes, vacuuming the carpet, making sure your fridge is stocked with things to drink and munch on, etc.

And your list should include other miscellaneous items - such as washing your car, getting money out of the bank, making reservations, etc.

It is especially important that you include items on your pre-date checklist that are important but you’re apt to forget - making sure you have a full tank of gas, putting a full roll of toilet paper in the bathroom, putting on your favorite cologne, etc. Whatever. The list will vary from person to person.

Even if you think there’s very little chance of anything out of the ordinary happening on this particular date, you should always plan that it will. Always be prepared.

Even if you’re supposed to meet her someplace, you should plan that you and she will wind up in your car at some point, and prep it accordingly.

Even if you think there’s very little chance of the two of you coming back to your place, you should have the place spotless and everything in its place just in case.

Even if you think there’s very little to no chance of anything “sexual” happening, you should plan that it will, and have the appropriate protection, lube, whips, chickens, or whatever other weirdo stuff you happen to be interested in available. (You disgust me!)

Having this simple checklist, which will grow and grow as you date more and more, will make your life so much simpler and your date so much less stressful.

You won’t be on your way out the door, running late to pick her up - as usual - when you realize that there are dirty dishes everywhere, the garbage is overflowing, you have no wine, you need gas, and you have to stop at the bank to get money. (Oh, and by the way, that particular ATM will not, of course, be working.) Then you arrive 45 minutes late, your date is already annoyed, and you’re stressed, sweating, and smell like gasoline.

Does this scenario sound familiar to you?

Develop your pre-date checklist and make your dates the joyful, stress-free, and fun experiences they’re supposed to be.

(info by Allen Thompson)

Looking to spice up your life a little, add some romance find that love connection? Well, caution: fees can be sky high. For example, AARP Magazine reported that a company called Gentlepeople charges from $15,000 to $50,000 to hook up you up with the right person. And FOX News reported that professional matchmakers across the country are charging up to $15,000 to pair people up. Instead of paying so much money, try starting here and see how you do with some of these tips.

ONLINE DATING – Seek out a reputable online dating service. Begin by asking friends, co-workers and other you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. Also, head to your favorite search engine and type in “online dating services” to see which ones come up. Start a journal or notebook and log your progress. Write out the URLs or website links and do some research: list fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of the site and any other useful information that you run across. Then begin slow. If something doesn’t feel right, trust your instincts and STOP.

COMMUNICATION – Go slow and don’t try to share every tidbit of information about yourself over night. Keep away from subjects that you don’t agree upon. When communicating via email and other electronic means (chat rooms, forums, etc.) don’t use all upper case letters (that’s called “shouting”), slang or your personal address for safety. Do use a firewall and anti-virus software to keep your computer safe, too. Key in “online safety tips” and check out online lists for updated safety tips once a month to make sure you’re up to date.

FRIENDSHIP – As your friendship grows, check to see if you are not only getting along pretty well together, but also handling conflicts well together. If you miss a chat time, for instance, is that it? Are you in the doghouse for a week? And gradually decide if you should meet in person. If so, make sure it’s a safe place out in public and that you are both legal adults.

LOVE GOALS – Gradually develop goals together so you’ll have a sense of direction. Write them down in a notebook just for the two of you. And over time, develop them, revise them, cross them off your list. The idea is to HAVE goals together and work towards a common good.

So before you fork out thousands of dollars looking for Mr. or Ms. Right, reach out and try to help yourself first. Go slow and steady, and use caution. Once you find your own love connection, you could set up your own matchmaker website!