Online Dating And Seduction Secrets

Love is like the board game Monopoly. Certain rules must be followed, a little bit of luck is involved, and someone is always cheating. Most importantly, it is a game, and in order to win, you must play it and play it well.

Being a nice guy, I’m sure you feel a bit awkward playing games with the women you meet. It is not in your nature. You feel dishonest, disrespectful, and at times, down right mean. But these are the types of guys chicks dig, and if you plan on ever spending an evening at the hotel on Park Place, you had better start stealing money from the banker.

Sure every now and then you will get a lucky roll of the dice and land on free parking, but in order to be truly successful, one must develop a strategy. Listed below, you will find 10 behaviors nice guys can display in order to make themselves more appealing to the women they seek. Implement any or all of these behaviors into your everyday personality and watch the women flock to you like ants to a fallen Dorito. Be careful though; the results may be hazardous to your bedsprings.

1. The take away method.

Once a woman has gotten a taste of you, kindly excuse yourself. Always leave her wanting more of you. Here is a simple little tip. When you first meet her, pretend to forget her name. She will be dying to leave a lasting impression on you so you never forget her name again.

2. Flirt with other women and make sure she sees it.

Women want men who are wanted by other women. This is a fact. Women are very competitive and will see you as the ultimate prize if she is competing for your affection. Also, she will quickly realize the need to snatch you up before someone else does. While using other women like this may seem cruel, never feel guilty. Trust me, you won’t be giving it a second thought when the object of your desire is tearing off your shorts.

3. Confidence is key.

This is a no brainer. If you act like a loser, you will feel like a loser and in turn women will see you as a loser. You will never get laid this way. You will truly be a loser.

4. Be charming.

At social gatherings, and especially around her friends, become the center of attention. If she sees that other people like to be around you, she is likely to want to be around you also. She will want to see what all the fuss is about.

5. Shut the hell up.

People become more interesting the moment they close their mouths. And for women, half the fun is the challenge of figuring you out.

6. Avoid serious conversations at all costs.

Scott Weiland said it best. Conversations kill. Believe it or not, women are just as scared off by these conversations as men. Maybe even more so considering they don’t expect men to be willing to talk about serious relationship stuff. Besides, they are always right anyway so why bother?

7. Intimidate her.

Always look her in the eye until she looks away first. This is the same technique experts use to train dogs to be obedient. This also turns women on. But hold back on showing her physical affection. The longer you make her wait, the more she will want it.

8. Do something wrong.

Drink, smoke, drive a fast car; anything that she will think is exciting, adventurous, and/or intriguing. Remember James Dean? Just imagine how much poon you would get if you were more like him.

9. Choose your friends over her.

This is one of my personal favorites. The whole time you are out with your friends, she will be out with her girlfriends telling them what a jerk you are. (Unless she’s out cheating on you.) But when you finally do see her again, it will be like conjugal visit day at the county prison.

10. Never, ever I mean NEVER let her know how strongly you feel for her.

I don’t care if you think God has sent her just for you and you want to marry her today, never let her know that. The minute she knows you have deep feelings for her, her challenge is over. She won. She got you and her fun is over.

I compare it to fishing. You sit all day with your bait in the water and when you finally catch a fish, what do you do? You throw it back in the water. Believe me, the minute she catches you hook, line, and sinker, it’s back in the drink for you.

(Thanks to Mr. Nice Guy)

Any of you familiar with the movie “A Bronx Tale,” will recognize this simple trick which I almost swear by.

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IYou pick a girl up, and being the true Don Juaner that you are, you walk her to the car to open the door for her. Now, you manually unlock her door and let her in. After closing the door, you walk around the back of the car and look through your rear window.

It may sounds cheesy, but I have used it, and it has worked for me. The girls who do unlock my door, end up having a longer relationship with me, than those who do not unlock the door.

(thanks to by FekTraz)

I had an unbelievable experience.

I took a new girl out to eat. I talked with her, using some of the techniques on this board. I touched her knees with my knees. I looked into her eyes. I tilted my head slightly when she spoke to me. I leaned forward toward her when speaking. But the real trick, I believe, was not the way I dealt with her, but the way I dealt with the restaurant employees.

I asked the waitress for her suggestions. I asked about the food and what the secret of its excellent taste was. I greeted the busboy and engaged him in some light conversation. On the way I out, I grabbed my date’s hand and walked right into the kitchen and praised the cook for the great meal.

Outside the restaurant, while waiting for a cab, she held both my hands and said, “You are a gracious person. You treat everyone, even strangers, so well.” I responded, “You should see how well I treat people I know.” She said, “I want to be one of those people.”

Although it was not my intent, she invited me home with her and a passionate evening… all because of how I treated others.

(thanks to Mr. Zip)

Out of all the women that I ever dated or picked up, they all told me that either shortly before or right at the time when I approached them, they had already decided that they wanted to talk to me and would be receptive to my overtures. They were just too scared to approach me first for the fear of being rejected by me, so they did nothing but hoped that I would talk to them or ask them out.

This indicates to me that a woman very quickly decides your place in her life. If she is interested, then she will be receptive to your approach. Do not waste any time by waiting. Go for her number and a date right away for she will respond quickly.

If she is not interested, she will also let you know and you can quickly move on to your next target without wasting time and effort.

You always want to be exploring the extent of her attraction for you by making moves on her to see how she responds. Most women are not likely to let you know of their attraction to you first for the great fear of rejection that most of them have. If they are attracted to you they will reveal it to you by responding to your advances.

The most important thing to remember is test her levels of attraction by making moves, but make sure that you always leave her with a way out so as not to make her feel cornered or pressured.

(thanks to Mark Bednarski)

One thing I’ve discovered is that beautiful women come with a vast variety of personalities. Some are smart, funny, sweet and fun to be with. Others are bitchy, high-maintenance, prima donnas. Still others, to be truthfully blunt, are annoying dorks.

The only way to find these things out is by talking to them. The only way to talk to them is through practice, practice, and more practice.

The place to practice is NOT in the bar/club atmosphere where everybody’s got their full force shields up. They’re amped and ready to be on the defensive, where even the sweetest and nicest of them will have their game face on.

It’s a lot easier to get a hit in batting practice than in front of a sold out crowd at the World Series.

As a recovering sufferer of social anxiety who is just now getting over the horrible trauma inflicted by high school, I get my practice rounds in with beautiful women who are guaranteed to talk to me.

I’m talking about car show spokespersons, retail store employees, and bartenders.

I went to one car show and it seemed like every car manufacturer had a really hot, professionally dressed babe available for people to talk to. What you need to keep in mind is that these women are hired because of their looks AND their outgoing personalities. So what I did was go up to each and every one of them and ask them the same question over and over again. “What happens to all these cars after the show? Do they go on the road to another show or do they go to the local dealerships?”

Over and over again I asked that question. With every babe I went up to, it just got easier and easier and they were all more than willing to talk to me.

Another good practice place is a men’s clothing store with women employees. A lot of them get some kind of commission or sales credit if they help you, so they suck up shamelessly. A lot of times I’ll ask them for their advice when I try things on.

Finally bartenders are often, not always, good because they’re kissing everybody’s ass trying to get good tips. I usually pretend that it’s the first time at that bar/club and ask if that’s the kind of music they always play.

(by Anonymous)

Have you been out at a club lately? Did you notice the faces of most of the men?

They look angry or tough, or overly macho. They try to look like this thinking that that’s attractive to a woman. Little do they know that most women smell this fakeness from miles and find few things less attractive then that.

So, next time you go out — whether it’s a loud club or quiet lounge with unique ambiance — you are going to exude a different vibe, different from almost all other guys. A vibe which will be obvious and very noticeable to women around. A vibe which will lead them to perceive you differently from all other guys, even before you approach.

I am talking about the HAPPY VIBE.

You are going to smile with the genuine smile of excitement about being out, alone or with your friends. You will not be standing frozen in one place, but will move around, gesticulate, and be in the center of attention of your friends. Be alive, show energy and interest in what’s going on around.

If you make eye contact with a woman, nod immediately with a light smile and say “Hi” with your voice or lips depending on how far she is standing from you. Don’t approach her right away. Allow her to turn around and take a breath and … go for it after just a minute or so.

Come over and say: “Excuse me” and wait until she turns around. Then say “Hi” and nothing else. WAIT until she says “Hi” back. This shows your power beyond anything else.

Then proceed: “I noticed you from the other side of the room and thought you were very ‘cute/friendly-looking’ and wanted to meet you.”

Watch the results!

You probably want to tell me now that women hardly ever make eye contact with you in public places. Trust me, if you exude the attitude of a positive, fun person with your facial expression and body language, the likelihood of a woman making eye contact with you will be very high.

So prepare yourself.

(info by Arkady Itkin)

Nine times out of ten, I can give a girl a hand massage, with no hesitation. I just grab their hand and massage it.

Their eyes glaze over, I own them. I never ASK, I just do it.

I will also just go up and rub their shoulders, they almost never refuse.

I DO know massage and how women LOVE it. One of the best tools in your box.

When I ask women who have boyfriends (whilst massaging them) “Do they massage as well as I do?” Almost always they say, “Never!”

So, guys, learn massage.

(info by Maxx)

I was told this by a friend of mine, who is a policeman. It’s not terribly complex, but it works really well.

Looking into somebody’s eyes for a long time is quite difficult. Most men will feel a little uncomfortable after a while. But constant eye contact sends a very powerful image about confidence, because so few have the confidence to look for so long.

In the police world, constant eye contact is used to intimidate the interviewee, to stop him/her trying to lie. This is how the police do it:

Just look at their eyebrows.

It’s very simply, you will look like you are giving deep eye contact, but you will be slightly off center. So you will find that you can do this without any of the usual feelings you get when looking deep into a person’s eyes (be it for love or aggression).

Of course, there are times when you want to feel those feelings, but I think this tip works great when first talking to a woman.

(info by Huisy)

I recently went shopping with a female co-worker and asked her opinion on what shirts would look good on me.

She picked out a couple of brightly colored dress shirts that I would have not normally looked at in a million years. She said, “Trust me, this would look really good on you.”

Since Fridays are casual, I decided to wear one of the shirts to work.

On my way into work, two women complimented me on my shirt. At work, several women stopped by my cubicle to say how nice my shirt was, or if I had a date or something. And one even playfully threatened to take my shirt and send me home topless.

The best part was after I had come back from lunch, there was an anonymous post note on my computer that said that “I looked yummy today.” Hmmmm.

So guys, get a girl to dress you. It is a worthy investment.

(info by Craig)

Every time they meet a little hottie, guys are wondering if the girl likes them, and what they should do next. “Should I go for it?”

This is NOT a legitimate question for a true seducer.

The answer is always YES. If you don’t go for the phone number close, then you’re still a rank amateur.

Make it automatic! Every time you meet a little hottie. Make nice, make your move, go for the phone number.

Every time. If you don’t, then you blew it. You should ask for her number the FIRST time you meet her. Then you don’t have to waste time wondering if you “should go for it.”

Make it automatic. Every time. Get the phone number.

(info by by Krakhed)