What Do You Do If A Woman Does Not Reply With Her Number
This is a question that I’ve been asked a gazillion times by men.
Here’s the typical scenario:
You send an email to a woman, she responds, you send another email asking for her number (using my 2nd email technique) and she DOESN’T respond with her number.
Most guys freak out and are unsure what to do when something like this happens. Maybe you are freaking out because this is happening to you right now.
I think there’s a deeper issue, which is: I’m not sure what to do in this situation, this woman has thrown me a curve-ball and I’m not prepared.
What do you do?
Most guys freak out, their confidence is shaken and they’re lost because they were thrown a curve-ball.
EXPECT WOMEN TO TEST YOU RIGHT AWAY!
Sometimes women don’t even realize they’re testing you… its hardwired into their brains.
The more attractive a woman is, the better she’s become at testing men, and the LESS obvious these tests are.
If you understand and EXPECT women to test you from the start, then you’re prepared for what should happen next.
Imagine being a soldier… if you expect to go into combat, you prepare yourself for what may (or hopefully may not) happen, and you wear body armor.
Point is, you need to be prepared for what may happen on the ‘battlefield’. Make sense?
Odds are you get freaked out because she didn’t follow what she was ’supposed’ to do… i.e. give you her number.
Because you’re unsure of what to do, since you haven’t prepared for it and you don’t want to potentially ruin anything that might be there so you revert to your alter ego…
WUSSIE MAN
Slap yourself back to reality for a second because you can no longer be a wuss. It’s very unattractive.
I won’t let you revert back.
And quite frankly you have no reason to, because you haven’t placed any value on this woman… right?
After all, she is just another email and face at this point UNTIL she proves to you that she’s worth more.
Getting back to the dilemma… She doesn’t respond with her number.
WHAT DO YOU DO?
You email her back, only this time wait at least 3-4 days because lets face it, you don’t want to come off as needy, insecure or desperate.
So waiting is in your favor.
But wait too long and the tension is lost so you don’t want to overdo it.
Since she didn’t respond with her number, She is giving you PERFECT ammo to bust on her!
I’m going to assume she emailed you back and continued with the usual banter most women write…
So you can respond to her email, but do NOT go into details, make sure to keep it short and then you can TOTALLY bust on her for not giving you her number.
He who has the shorter email wins.
WHAT CAN YOU SAY?
1. Bust on her for not having a phone
‘I know why you didn’t respond with your number, its totally cool if you don’t have a phone… we can talk using smoke signals or something.’
2. Bust on her for not paying her phone bill
‘Listen, about the phone, It’s really nothing to be embarrassed about and it doesn’t really change the way I think of you… you know, not paying your phone bill… I have an idea, we could start a collection for you around the neighborhood or something to hook you up.’
3. Use the ‘points’ system… tell her she just lost 5 points for not following your last email and she’s blowing it with you.
Its amazing when you use the concept of ‘She’s blowing it’ with a woman.
Most guys simply give a woman all this value right off the bat, and she knows this guy isn’t worth it, because he’s giving her so much value without her having to work for it.
She’s got this guy whipped!
It’s no challenge for her - and this all takes place BEFORE they meet!
You need to make things into a challenge, and busting on her for not ‘following orders’ is a fantastic way to do it.
And you can totally do this in person too!
Remember, the challenge is whats unpredictable and women LOVE that.
It shows supreme confidence (one of the 5 C’s) and it’s mesmerizing to women.
Point of this article? Expect a woman is going to test you. Because you already expect it, you are not phased by it, instead you already have an answer waiting for her.
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What good is getting her phone number if you don’t know how to carry on a conversation and get her to agree to go out on a date with you?
What good is getting a date if you don’t know how to get to hold her hand, kiss her (or get her to desire you)?
You get my drift.
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