The other day, I went to one of those internet personals sites and answered a bunch of ads. I wrote to some ladies, and then decided to pick one woman with a great smile and simply typed this:
Hey, I was looking through the personals and saw your ad. I just thought you had the prettiest smile and thought I would let you know.
That’s it. And it worked! She’s the only one who wrote back.
(thanks to Frank)
I’m sitting here at home, on my apple laptop, and without even leaving my bedroom I was able to find 20 new women I was somewhat interested in on a couple of dating websites I use.
I sent them each an email.
An email that I SLIGHTLY modified for each of them, and within 45 minutes… I was sitting with 13 responses.
Sent 20, got 13 responses. (keep following)
NOT BAD FOR 5 MINUTES OF ‘WORK’
(if you call it work, its pretty much just COPY AND PASTE)
UNfortunately, like you and I both know, having a woman responding to your initial email, doesn’t mean you’re going to be able to get their number.
(although I have do an unfair advantage IID)
I THEN SENT THEM ANOTHER COPY AND PASTE EMAIL..
And within 2 hours, I had 10 new emails conaining the phone numbers of 10 lovely (and attractive) women who are all *VERY* eager to speak to me.
Sent 20, got 13 responses. Got 10 phone numbers (not bad but I ended up with another reply with phone number later on in the day. I ended up 12 numbers. 
For some guys reading this, what I just mentioned sounds like a scene from of a movie.
It just doesn’t seem real.
I can totally relate because a few years ago this used to be nothing more than a fantasy for me too!
Now his fantasy is a typical day for me.
It’s not really hard to get a woman to respond and then give you her phone number… IF you understand the PROCESS behind meeting women on the internet.
Exactly what did I send these 20 women that was so interesting they were FORCED to write back?
Simple, I’ll tell you in a second, but before I get to that let me explain something very relevant and very important.
One of the things I talk about in the program is my ‘templates’. They’re basically email sequences I’ve tested and refined over 4 years.
Copy and paste templates for every type of situation you may run across when meeting women online.
And I mean EVERY situation.
Constantly refining them over and over until they were so GOOD women wouldn’t even know you sent something similar to 30 OTHER women as well.
Ok, back to what I sent to these 20 women…
Heres the sequence I sent them:
STEP 1: INTRODUCTION
Mention something about what you really think about meeting women thru the internet
STEP 2: MENTION SOMETHING FUNNY ABOUT HER PROFILE
Yes, I’m talking about you picking on her. If there’s something she’s wearing, a pose she’s in, the type of photo or something she says bust on her for it!
(this is where the email is customized for each individual women)
STEP 3: TELL HER BRIEFLY ABOUT YOURSELF
Take 1 small sentence and highlight something about yourself. Remember to keep it *very* BRIEF.
STEP 4: CALL TO ACTION
What do you want her to do after she reads this email?
Tell her what you’d like her to do.
STEP 5: SIGN OFF
This is where you place your name and your email address… make sure you use the right format or it will be filtered out and she won’t see it.
That is what I sent all of them. Thats the EXACT sequence I used… Next week odds are I’ll use a different sequence and perhaps it might work even better than this one.
I’m always trying out new things.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER SHE RESPONDS?
Just like I show you in the program, I simply copied and pasted my ‘phone number’ email, which pretty much always gets you their phone number.
Yes, it REALLY is this easy.
That sequence I’ve tested and refined COUNTLESS number of times and its only one of SEVERAL that I have and one of about 8 that I share with you inside the Insider Internet Dating program.
WHAT IF YOU WANT TO CREATE YOUR OWN TEMPLATE?
Heres what you’d have to do:
STEP 1. Create an email
STEP 2. Create another version of it only change something in it.
STEP 3. Send both out with SEPARATE headlines so you can keep track of which one gets more responses.
STEP 4. The one that gets more responses you keep, the other? Get rid of it.
STEP 5. Rinse wash repeat. That means just do the same thing over again.
I must tell you…
For your sequence to have anywhere near the effectiveness that mine have, you’re going to have to conduct around 423 tests.
What I mean is you’re going to have to do that whole set of steps I just mentioned 423 DIFFERENT times!
Yes, I know it’s crazy… and I’m nuts for doing it, but I actually conducted around 423 tests that took me over 3 years to do.
I tested ALL kinds of stuff…. from headlines, openers, questions to ask, days of the week to email and a whole lot more.
If you’ve got all that time on your hands, and the energy to do it then by all means go for it.
For most of us, thats NOT an option.
99% of us don’t have time, we work and turning dating into a scientific experiment isn’t something we consider fun.
ESPECIALLY after a day of listening to your boss, or dealing with customers.
In fact, if I had to do it again, I probably wouldn’t be able to do it… it was THAT much work.
What you now see is the end result of this hard work. (i.e. more results in less time.)
That is what meeting women online is about…
More results, with less effort. Meeting women online the way I do it, is so much fun because you know exactly what you have to do each step of the way and it doesn’t take much time to do.
If you’re reading these emails and saying to yourself ‘I really need to improve what I’m doing’ because you’re NOT getting the results you want with meeting women online then I couldn’t agree with you more.
Getting success with this part of your life doesn’t just ‘Happen’.
Sure you might have some good experiences here and there because you were either speaking to the right girl at the right time or got a girl that was more needy than you were…
But consistent success with meeting women online is the result of knowing EXACTLY what do do each step of the way and then being able to do it.
Its about learning the exact PROCESS.
I have the most amazing education system for meeting women off the internet that will teach you just that.
I’ve never published the material you find in Insider Internet Dating. It’s never been part of any course or seminar talk I’ve ever done. No one knows about it except for my own students.
You won’t find it anywhere.
Any guy can use it, it will work on any dating site and it will help you put your dating on AUTOPILOT.
The best part?
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To your dating success,
Dave M.
This little maneuver has become one of my favorite ways to really screw with a woman’s head. Basically it goes like this:
You’re out on a date and you can tell both of you had a good time and enjoyed each other’s company. Now the evening (or afternoon or whatever) is drawing to a close and both of you are in that “goodbye kiss anticipation zone” that I’m sure everybody knows and dreads just as much as I do.
Finally you come to a stop in front of her door and, whether you end up walking her up from the driveway or just staying in the car, you ask her that Most Dreaded Question:
“Can I kiss you?”
To which she has two options for an answer. And if she actually did have a good time with you she will use the most favorable one. She’ll smile coyly and say “Yes” softly, like only the ladies can.
Now you say this: “Alright then. I’ll be sure to do that someday.” Shake her hand or just smile and wink, but get on your way as soon as you can.
I guarantee that she’ll be left standing there with her mouth hanging open wondering exactly what the hell just happened. And over the next few days she’s going to really start itching for that kiss from you.
When she does see you again, the sheer anticipation of when, where, and how that kiss is going to happen will literally drive her nuts… because she knows you want to kiss her and that it is going to come sooner or later. But she can never know the answers to when, where, and how because you’re never going to give her any clues. And you’re going to act like nothing is up in the slightest. Pretend you forgot the incident even happened.
When you finally do decide to give her that smooch, just do it (but try to determine if she’s in the mood for it; odds are she will be). UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE YOU TO ASK AGAIN! You’ve already asked and she already said yes, remember? It’ll be a damn good kiss, believe me.
This has always worked wonders for me.
I gave out that kiss to one girl after just running into her on the street and we ended up spending the rest of the day (and most of the next morning) together. With another one I was at an amusement park and the damn Ferris Wheel got jammed and we were stuck dangling in the air for fifteen minutes. I gave her a little peck and we basically ended up doing the grind up there until we started moving again.
And another girl actually tried wrestling that kiss out of me immediately after I pulled the “someday” line on her. Somehow I managed to get away from her. But when I kissed her on our second date at a red traffic light after leaving the restaurant, she told me to forget about the movie and come home with her.
This is a question that I’ve been asked a gazillion times by men.
Here’s the typical scenario:
You send an email to a woman, she responds, you send another email asking for her number (using my 2nd email technique) and she DOESN’T respond with her number.
Most guys freak out and are unsure what to do when something like this happens. Maybe you are freaking out because this is happening to you right now.
I think there’s a deeper issue, which is: I’m not sure what to do in this situation, this woman has thrown me a curve-ball and I’m not prepared.
What do you do?
Most guys freak out, their confidence is shaken and they’re lost because they were thrown a curve-ball.
EXPECT WOMEN TO TEST YOU RIGHT AWAY!
Sometimes women don’t even realize they’re testing you… its hardwired into their brains.
The more attractive a woman is, the better she’s become at testing men, and the LESS obvious these tests are.
If you understand and EXPECT women to test you from the start, then you’re prepared for what should happen next.
Imagine being a soldier… if you expect to go into combat, you prepare yourself for what may (or hopefully may not) happen, and you wear body armor.
Point is, you need to be prepared for what may happen on the ‘battlefield’. Make sense?
Odds are you get freaked out because she didn’t follow what she was ’supposed’ to do… i.e. give you her number.
Because you’re unsure of what to do, since you haven’t prepared for it and you don’t want to potentially ruin anything that might be there so you revert to your alter ego…
WUSSIE MAN
Slap yourself back to reality for a second because you can no longer be a wuss. It’s very unattractive.
I won’t let you revert back.
And quite frankly you have no reason to, because you haven’t placed any value on this woman… right?
After all, she is just another email and face at this point UNTIL she proves to you that she’s worth more.
Getting back to the dilemma… She doesn’t respond with her number.
WHAT DO YOU DO?
You email her back, only this time wait at least 3-4 days because lets face it, you don’t want to come off as needy, insecure or desperate.
So waiting is in your favor.
But wait too long and the tension is lost so you don’t want to overdo it.
Since she didn’t respond with her number, She is giving you PERFECT ammo to bust on her!
I’m going to assume she emailed you back and continued with the usual banter most women write…
So you can respond to her email, but do NOT go into details, make sure to keep it short and then you can TOTALLY bust on her for not giving you her number.
He who has the shorter email wins.
WHAT CAN YOU SAY?
1. Bust on her for not having a phone
‘I know why you didn’t respond with your number, its totally cool if you don’t have a phone… we can talk using smoke signals or something.’
2. Bust on her for not paying her phone bill
‘Listen, about the phone, It’s really nothing to be embarrassed about and it doesn’t really change the way I think of you… you know, not paying your phone bill… I have an idea, we could start a collection for you around the neighborhood or something to hook you up.’
3. Use the ‘points’ system… tell her she just lost 5 points for not following your last email and she’s blowing it with you.
Its amazing when you use the concept of ‘She’s blowing it’ with a woman.
Most guys simply give a woman all this value right off the bat, and she knows this guy isn’t worth it, because he’s giving her so much value without her having to work for it.
She’s got this guy whipped!
It’s no challenge for her - and this all takes place BEFORE they meet!
You need to make things into a challenge, and busting on her for not ‘following orders’ is a fantastic way to do it.
And you can totally do this in person too!
Remember, the challenge is whats unpredictable and women LOVE that.
It shows supreme confidence (one of the 5 C’s) and it’s mesmerizing to women.
Point of this article? Expect a woman is going to test you. Because you already expect it, you are not phased by it, instead you already have an answer waiting for her.
It all goes back to this: When it comes to online dating, knowing a little or just enough could be DANGEROUS.
You have to go full throttle or you’ll only get to first base - or strike out altogether.
Listen, what good is getting a woman to respond to your e-mail if you can’t get her phone number?
What good is getting her phone number if you don’t know how to carry on a conversation and get her to agree to go out on a date with you?
What good is getting a date if you don’t know how to get to hold her hand, kiss her (or get her to desire you)?
You get my drift.
Having a killer profile — but no killer strategies when sending out e-mails or making the first phone call or going on the first date — can lead to incongruence, which equals dating failure.
You gotta know what to do every step of the way. And it’s easy when you have my Insider Internet Dating program.
Here’s what I’ll show you:
* The exact profile template that I use (the same one I used to create my Match.com profile that was viewed 18,725 times in 18 months). You can use this template as an outline to create your own
* Some of the absolute best sites where you can get fantastic ideas to get your profile all tricked out - plus a site you can use to test which of your pictures to place on your profile for maximum appeal.
*A fool-proof template for e-mails (not just the first email but the follow-up e-mail , in case you don’t get a response the first time)
* What to say to a woman on the phone so that she’ll agree to go out on a date with you
*How to raise a woman’s attraction to you when you’re out on a date - this includes how to raise the level of intimacy, hold her hand, and kiss her and open up other intimate possibilities on the first date
*Where to take a woman on a date so it won’t cost you too much money, and it will also contribute to intimacy
*What to say at the end of a first date (or what not to say) to keep a woman wanting more of you
… and there’s much more where that came from.
So you see, I don’t just teach you how to get e-mail responses, phone numbers and dates - and then leave you alone to fend for yourself in the real-life dating world.
I show you what to do every step of the way so that you’ll always have the upper hand and keep women interested in you, and even chasing after you.
The beauty of this is that you don’t have to be good-looking to be successful in online dating. You simply have to follow my powerful principles that are scientifically proven to work on the Web.
Don’t try to apply pickup routines that you use in face-to-face encounters in your online dating activities - they don’t work.
Online dating has its own culture and I teach killer ways of communicating which will maximize your dating success. It has a lot to do with understanding the psychology of women and using the medium of the Internet to communicate persuasively.
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Meeting an online love interest in person for the first time is an exciting prospect, but safety should be of the utmost concern when planning a rendezvous.
The Wichita Eagle asked several local couples and singles who have dated online for their tips on how to safely navigate a first date.
1. Be honest. Any relationship based on a lie is bound to turn out badly. The truth will have to come out eventually, which will lead to a very awkward situation.
2. Watch out for fake profiles. Some online profiles are staged by companies looking to gain access to your e-mail address and other personal information.
A good indicator that someone may be misleading you is if they are eager to find out your personal information right away. Their photo also might look like a posed image of a model.
3. Share when you’re ready. Take your time when it comes to giving out your phone number. It might even be a good idea to set up a date by e-mail, then share your number and other information if the date goes well.
5. Go with your gut. If something doesn’t seem quite right, or if you’ve got a bad feeling about someone, chances are you should steer clear.
6. Tell a friend. When you’re meeting someone in person for the first time, let a friend know where and when you’ll be meeting as a precaution, and make sure they’ll be available if you need to get in touch with them.
7. Meet in a public place. It might not be a good idea to invite someone to your home, or to a place where there won’t be other people around. Consider making plans to meet at a restaurant or some other busy locale.
(info from The Wichita Eagle)
QUESTION FROM A READER:
‘Hi, Dave.
Can you offer any guidelines as to what a reasonable response rate is on emails that I send out? Should I be looking for a response from one girl in two? one in five? one in ten? one in twenty?
My response rate now is probably close to one in twenty. That seems pretty awful to me, but maybe that’s par for the course.
One thing I know for sure is that most women I send emails to never even look at my profile — presumably because they are so bombarded with contacts from guys, they’re just mass-deleting. So, if I’m going one for 20, but 15 of the 20 never saw my profile, and may not even have read my email, maybe I’m doing better than I think.’
Daniel B.
MY COMMENTS:
Response rate. Great question. I think it really has to do with what website you’re on, how many guys are in your area, what you’re sending… etc.
In otherwards, there’s a LOT of variables that contribute to how many women will email you back.
And the results change all the time.
I’ve had months where I’d get about 60% responding to my initial email, then the next month that amount would be down to 20%.
Go figure.
In direct response typically when something is mailed for the 1st time, a benchmark response rate is 1% (1 out of 100). If the list is good and your copy is good that could go up to say 3%.
Online with these websites, I’d say if you’re getting 1-5% response to your 1st email, you’re doing ok. You’ll get better the more you do it, and the more you keep refining the emails.
Once you get the right combination, it’s like getting the keys to the kingdom. You’ll have a never ending supply of attractive and available women.
I think you should work on your subject lines 1st. If the women are just mass deleting your email, then you have a CLUE.
You have a starting point. You know that something in that 1st email isn’t working. If it did they’d at least click to view your profile.
So you know its not something in your profile. It can be only 1 of 2 things… your email or your subject.
Start refining both and you’ll start to see improved results.
NB: For more info, you should check the course I created.
This simple multimedia program is probably the most powerful thing I’ve ever created.
Read that again. These simple techniques will increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get by 35% (at least). How can you do this?
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Maybe you’re one of those people who has a gift for making people laugh. Perhaps on a first date, you effortlessly inspire everything from chuckles to guffaws. Congrats on that. But let’s say you’re more like the rest of us, who really, really want to amuse the folks we meet at bars and parties or go out with on dates but just don’t know how. Then this advice is for you. Listen up as five comedians share their tried-and-true tactics for making ‘em laugh.
Funny Fundamental #1: The Bait-and-Switch From: Andy Vastola, a comic who’s appeared on The Late Show with David Letterman
“The ‘bait-and-switch’ is often used to keep the other person on their toes and to prevent the conversation from getting stale. There are two basic steps to the ‘bait and switch.’ Step one: Deliberately misinterpret something your date says. Step two: Answer with a statement that’s a play on what they’ve said. For example, your date may ask, ‘How do you like the scones?’ (the bait). Your response: ‘I don’t know; I’ve never seen The Scones in concert. Are they good?’ (the switch). This is a win/win situation. If your date laughs, it means they have a sense of humor and they’re a keeper. If not, they think you’re a bonehead and will do the breaking up for you.”
Funny Fundamental #3: Character Voices From: Ophira Eisenberg, stand-up comic and a panelist for Us Weekly’s Fashion Police
“Pump up your anecdotes with fun character voices to get your date more interested and laughing. We’re not talking about Daffy Duck impressions stick to mimicking characters in your story. Trust me, the time you got pulled over for a speeding ticket will be so much funnier if you give the cop an oafish voice. And don’t worry if you can’t master an accent or if it’s not a good impression it’s the effort that counts! However, don’t risk trying an impression of your date while on the date. Save that for years down the road.”
Funny Fundamental #4: The Save From: Christian Finnegan, panelist on VH1’s Best Week Ever, a tongue-in-cheek roundup of pop culture
“A ’save’ is when you create an awkward situation by accident and then alleviate your blunder by saying something funny. For instance, you might go on a 10-minute tirade about how much you loathe Billy Joel only to have your date tell you she’s seen him in concert 14 times. At this point you may be tempted to apologize, but don’t. You said what you said equivocating just makes you look weak. To ’save’ this situation, you need to take your argument to absurd proportions, and say something like, ‘Obviously you’re unaware that Billy Joel cheated my entire family out of our fortune.’ This renders the whole conversation ridiculous, and therefore harmless. And by not immediately apologizing, you display a blend of confidence and independence. 10 points for you!”
Funny Fundamental #5: The “Yes, And” Tactic From: Carmen Lynch, comedian on Last Comic Standing
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Elise Nersesian is a New York-based writer who covers love, sex, and relationships. Luckily, her current beau keeps her in stitches pretty much non-stop. Article courtesy of Happen magazine, www.happenmag.com.
If you’re single and looking, this is something you absolutely should NOT overlook.
Arguably the biggest hurdle most guys have to overcome is that very FIRST email. I get emails daily from guys asking exactly what they should put in their emails so they get read and responded to.
Because of my direct marketing background, and being a fanatical tester of what works and what doesn’t work, I’ve been able to isolate several key factors which should always be present when you’re communicating to a woman online.
More about those in a minute…
Before we get to them, let’s talk about something even more important to your success in writing compelling emails.
WHAT’S GOING ON IN HER HEAD?
The more successful you are at putting yourself in a woman’s shoes who’s using the internet to meet guys, the more successful you’ll be in getting women to respond to your emails.
The more sensitive you are to what she’s going through, the more persuasive you can be, the more rapport you can have with her, and consequently, the more she’ll trust and agree with you.
Put yourself in the shoes of a woman who’s being bombarded with emails daily from men.
When you’re trying to create that interest with a woman online, you need to create rapport, a great way is to ‘make yourself like her’.
What common interests do you share?
Was there something in her profile that caught your eye?
You shouldn’t forget that with email, people generally see it as more private/personal than your profile… people know that a profile is written for everyone to see.
When you send an email, the perception is that it should be personal, because emails typically are personal in nature. Therefore, use this to your advantage
It’s absolutely critical you write as if you’re speaking to ONLY HER. Don’t speak AT her, or TO her, speak with her.
Some keys to emails that get women to reply:
PERSONALIZE
You MUST personalize every message you send out. Women have a BS detector and can smell a copy and paste email a mile away. Even if you just use her screen name 1 time, make it personal.
Talk about her profile, let her know in some way that you actually READ her profile.
COMPLIMENT
Compliment her on something you find interesting about her… something you’re intrigued about. Remember the best way to get someone interested in you is to become interested in them first. I have this 2 step system I use called:
ENGAGE & EXPAND.
Rather than tell you all about it, here’s a quick example:
To ENGAGE, you can say something such as:
‘I read you’re into _____ Thats really cool.’
Then you EXPAND on it by adding:
‘I’ve always been interested in _____, how long have you been into it?’
Very simple, but VERY VERY effective.
AN INTRIGUING SUBJECT LINE
What’s the very first thing a woman sees when you send her an email?
No, it’s not your photo, no it’s not your email… it’s your subject line. What you place in that subject line is critical to your email even getting open.
The subject line should create intrique and almost force the woman to want to open it… because it’s compelling.
Women will tend to open emails if they’re more conversational in style and more personal, rather than generic.
HOW TO ENSURE YOUR EMAIL GETS READ
I always suggest looking through your own inbox and seeing the subject lines which stand out to you. Which ones capture your attention IMMEDIATELY?
In your subject lines mention something unique about her profile. For instance… If she’s into shooting pool, your subject could be something like:
‘Hey [her screen name], so you think you can shoot pool?’
WHAT DO YOU SAY FIRST?
The first sentance is arguably the part most guys have the biggest problems with. If the subject is the most important part of the email itself, then the 1st sentance is the most important part of the body.
The goal of your first sentance should be to introduce yourself and to estabilish rapport. Start by saying something you’d say to a friend.
Make sure your emails are written in a conversational style… like you’re emailing a friend of yours. You can ALWAYS tell when someone’s sending a copy and paste email…. because the email is usually very ambiguous and says nothing specific about that woman’s profile.
THEN WHAT?
You have an intriguing subject line, an inviting first sentance, used some humor in the email, and now you’ve got to seal the deal.
This is where you need to insert a CTA. This stands for Call To Action. Simply put, what do you want the woman to do as a result of reading the email?
Answer that question and you have your CTA.
I have a rule with each step in my system….
Every step only has ONE CTA. This is where most guys mess things up. They give women too many options, or none at all.
Tell the woman what you want her to do next, you can say something like…
‘Read the email and get back to me…’ ‘I’ll be looking for your response’ ‘let’s see your answers to the questions…’
If I could show you one simple technique that in 2 minutes would increase the number of responses you currently get on ANY dating site by 32% would you do it?
What if I had a collection of these techniques that took me years to test and perfect, would you want to use them?
Of course, and that’s why guys are going crazy about this.
No other dating coach has ever revealed information this sensitive.
For years I’ve kept this information quiet.
You have probably heard the buzz that I finally released my ‘Insider Internet Dating Program’ to the public.
Dating coach Rod Cortez said: ‘In the first month, I set up TEN DATES in one week and have actually been turning women down because I’m so BUSY meeting new hotties. ‘
David De’Angleo calls me an online dating ‘Specialist’
This simple multimedia program is probably the most powerful thing I’ve ever created.
Read that again. These simple techniques will increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get by 35% (at least). How can you do this?
Well, it’s quite easy to use, and purely scientific.
These aren’t just theories and guesses - these are *specific* things you can do right now that will increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get.
And each of these techniques have been *scientifically* proven.
It reveals the results of years of research conducted by me online showing *exactly* the simple techniques I use that dramatically increase the number of women who respond to your emails and the number of dates you get.
One of these techniques increased my responses by a clearly measurable 412%.
If I could reach out and grab you through this email I’d shake you to make you realize how important what I’m about to show you is.
What if this program is exactly what you need to turn your dating life around?
There’s a reason people are going crazy for this program.
Don’t you want to know why?
Simply click on the link below to find out all the details:
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To your dating success,
Dave M.
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Boy Scouts know that the motto “Be Prepared” is an important one, and you should know that also.
Think back through the years about some of the gals that have started conversations with you, the way it took you by surprise, and how you wished you could have said a lot more things once you had time to digest the conversation.
What the gals were most often doing was hitting on you, but it may have been so subtle you didn’t know it at the time.
As someone dating a lot, you know how difficult and awkward it can be sometimes to hit on a babe in your presence. Well, it is just as difficult for the gals to begin a conversation with a guy she would like to get to know. This is where your “Be Prepared” motto will assist you.
From now on, get it in your mind that EVERY gal that begins a conversation with you is interested in getting to know you, that is why she began the conversation in the first place. Get the thought in your mind that, “hey this babe approached me, she likes my looks, and wants to get to know me.”
And, for heavens sake, be prepared to swing into action with at least five or six good smooth questions that toss the subject back to her as a person, to keep her talking. And, of course, the most important one of all is for that phone number or a never fail way to contact her in the next few days.
Be prepared for nothing less. The more you practice it, the easier it becomes.
I stumbled on the concept years ago when I was right out of the service. I took a week to relax and vacation at Daytona Beach, Florida. Like a lot of tourists, I had bought some of the snazzy tee shirts that had the Daytona Beach logo on them.
When I would wear one of the shirts to a college hot spot back home here in Ohio, I would have gals approach me and begin a conversation WITH ME about Florida. They hadn’t necessarily been to Daytona Beach, often times they wanted to talk about Ft. Lauderdale or Tampa or St. Petersburg. The important thing was that they initiated the conversation with me, which showed they welcomed my conversation, which boosted my confidence immensely, because there was no fear of rejection on my part.
The next important thing is that the subject matter of Florida led to so many things to talk about! They were excited to tell me all about where they went, why they went, how many times they went, are they going back, etc. The entire subject matter was one of pleasant memories they loved to relive. It was so easy to keep the conversation flowing, that by the time we exhausted that subject, we had been talking several minutes, were comfortable with each other, and had gained a lot of valuable “free” information about each other.
So, you too need to “be prepared.” The very next time any gal begins a conversation with you, no matter where you are or what the occasion, just immediately assume she wants to get to know you, smoothly switch over to talking about HER and things she is interested in, and make sure you get on base by getting that all important phone number!
You will find yourself getting lots of “extra base hits and home runs” all because you were prepared!
(info by Jim)
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